3. Improve your communication skills/ Be social
It is preferred before responding any heating arguments, a person collect all his thoughts ,and then participate in the situation .It is because, the things that are said, won’t be returned back and it is that the person is likely to regret after being the trigger to the unwanted outcomes of his words.
We all need to accept that everybody is different and we cannot control feelings, beliefs and behaviors of others. We should try to be realistic, respect opinions, and listen to them. Being grudge just flames the situation.
2. Change your environment
The immediate surrounding can give us cause for irritation and fury. If we grew up in a family where expressing feelings were strongly discouraged, it is likely that temper is covering up true feelings and needs. And if being the loudest and demanding always meets our desire and needs, compromising brings up scary feelings of failure that we refuse to stand for.
Basically loud voice, anger and demand not always is able satisfy a human’s prospect, so emotional awareness should be brought up and change up our attitudes towards how we change our consent disciples of life .
1. Express yourself
The things or the people that have provoked us, fused our temper should be studied all by oneself. After we are aware of it, the personal signs that our temper is starting to take control over us, allows us to take steps to manage our anger before it gets out of control.
As soon as we think clearly we should express our frustration in an assertive but non confrontational way. We should be able to state our concerns and needs clearly and directly, and concede to a conclusion without hurting others.
Anger is a serious emotion but if it is accompanied by ideas, that if examined could make us laugh. All conflicted anger is not avoidable but if one endeavors to live positively, it keeps the problems from escalating. Personal relationships that have been previously strained by a high level of aggression are likely to undergo improvement.
From an emotional standpoint, reducing the internal level of anger results in a decrease in stress and an increase in overall happiness.Successful anger management could also lead to overall longer life span due to sound physical and mental health. Respecting others and accepting to live in society following social norms greatly creates a man with high virtue.